A school is chosen by fit with your child, not by ranking
Rankings and reviews are useful, but they describe an average, while the child attending is a specific person with a specific temperament, pace and interests. So compare schools by what you can check yourself: what an ordinary day looks like, how adults speak to children, what happens during breaks and how the school responds to conflict.
The second, underrated factor is the journey. Forty minutes each way, every day, noticeably changes family life and how much energy a child has by the first lesson.
What to compare
| Criterion | How to check it |
|---|---|
| Journey and travel time | Do it at rush hour, not on a map |
| Atmosphere | Visit in person and watch a break |
| The class teacher | In the early years they define everything |
| Workload and homework | Ask parents of current pupils |
| Response to conflict | Ask the leadership directly |
| Clubs and activities | What is on site and when it finishes |
| Costs | Contributions, uniform, trips, meals |
Questions worth asking
What an ordinary day looks like, how many children are in a class, who teaches the core subjects and for how long, what happens if a child falls behind, how the school responds to bullying and conflict, how parents are kept informed, what the yearly costs are.
Do not ask only the leadership. Parents of current pupils answer more honestly, and their answers can be compared with each other.
About your child
Children care about different things than adults: whether anyone they know will be there, where they will eat, whether there is anywhere quiet. If the age allows, take them along and ask what they noticed. Not a deciding vote, but important information.
About the transition
Changing school is stressful even when the new one is better. Plan the move between terms, meet the teacher in advance, work out the journey and decide what happens in the first weeks if it gets hard.
When you can decide
You have visited in person, travelled the route at a real time of day, spoken to the teacher and to parents, know the workload and the costs, asked about conflict and got a clear answer, and your child’s view has been heard and taken into account.